💬 Real Questions, Real Answers : What Women Secretly Want to Know About Intimacy — Answered Without Shame
The Things You’ve Been Too Shy to Ask — Until Now “Is it normal if I don’t want sex after having kids?” “Why do I feel nothing during penetration?” “Can you want your partner and still fantasize about someone else?” You’re not the only one asking. And no — you’re not broken. These are the real questions women ask behind closed doors. Not because they’re taboo — but because we’ve never been taught it’s okay to ask. 🔍 Why These Questions Matter As a relationship and intimacy specialist, I’ve seen one common thread in every age group: Women want answers — honest ones — from someone who won’t flinch. So in this post, I’m answering 10 of the most common, most whispered questions I’ve received from clients, readers, and friends. ❓ Question 1: Is it normal if I rarely feel aroused anymore? Yes. And no — you’re not alone. Arousal is not just physical. It’s contextual. Hormones shift. Stress and motherhood overwhelm. Lack of novelty reduces dopamine. 💡 Wh...